Oral history interview with Mr and Mrs D

00:00 Introductions.

03:40 Mr D explains what digital marketing involves.

05:11 His milestones.

05:30 Mr D was sent to South Africa with his younger sister.

07:07 The long-term effect of being bitten by a dog.

07:57 Graduating from high school.

08:25 Marring his wife and being blessed with a beautiful child.

09:20 Mr D talks about his time in Russia

11:30 Bad experiences led him to the UK where he met his wife.

11:55 Mrs D talks about her milestones.

12:00 When in Malawi she remembers leaving home for the first time to work.

14:50 How she met a girl who became like her sister.

18:00 Learning to play an instrument in the Salvation Army.

18:30 Losing her parent’s at a young age.

19:00 ‘God sent me my husband and we have a beautiful daughter’.

19:20 Talks again of her mother and the events before her death.

21:47 Mr D and Mrs D discuss wedding ceremonies.

26:04 How to keep peace in a marriage.

29:24 Friendship before courtship.

31:16 How they first met.

34:23 Keeping in touch.

38:31 More about their relationship.

43:31 The starting point.

45:23 The length of their relationship.

49:35 Their church wedding was like.

53:36 They discuss lobola.

58:39 Marriage from a man’s perspective. Marriage is hard.

1:07:21 They both agree that marriage is between 2 people.

1:11:21 Mr D has a problem with finding love on social media.

1:14:07 Marrying your best friend.

1:18:43 Mrs D will advise her daughter on getting married and on sexual matters.

1:22:37 They both agree on intercultural and interracial marriages.

1:26:30 Mr D thinks it is important to marry someone of the same faith.

1:29:30 Closing remarks.

1:31:21 End of recording.